“This is my favorite time of the year,” Joellen matter-a-factly stated, “Christmas is coming and everyone is so nice and doing good.”

I just smiled and thanked her for today’s blog entry.

I am floored by  how early the Christmas decorations are displayed in stores.   The  carols are barked, meowed, and Santa even does a hip hop version of  ”Wish You a Merry Christmas.”  We have even been talking to our kids about this year’s celebration.  Even our pastor talked about giving around the Christmas season, just this past Sunday.

It amazes me how generous people get between now and New Year’s.  Food banks are filled.  Toys are collected and handed out to children across the world.  People have a quick step and a Christmas tune on their lips.  Clinks of coins  into a red bucket warms the hearts of givers at the ringing of a bell.  Jo was right…. people do kind things around the holidays…..Perhaps that is why most love the season.

So answer this…..when we put away our silver bells why does the silver lining of giving have to be put up in the attic too?  Why do we feel the need to help out more during this time of the year instead of throughout the year?  That is the question Jo posed yesterday.  I didn’t have answer to that question.  She was right in saying that God doesn’t say in the Bible to take care of the orphans, widows, and the lame only during the Christmas season.

She’s so right!!  So, we at the Dettra house are planning a New Year’s resolution today…..In 2010, from January to December, we will be a giving family.  We are going to make a conscious effort to give….an not only our money but ourselves.  Even though we already volunteer weekly, there is so much more we can do.  Cookies baked and given to an elderly man sitting on his front porch waving at traffic.   Sending cards to family and friends throughout the year, will not only bring a smile but love felt.  I don’t know why I have no problem sending cards the Monday after Thanksgiving  and never drop a line throughout the year.  (Of course, send e-cards as a way to “go green.”)  How about a “just because” gift to someone in the office, in your church, or an old friend?  The possibilities are endless.

I challenge you to sit down with your family and find ways you can give more of yourself in 2010.  Start planning now so you can put it in your yearly budget.  Also, ask the kids where they want to volunteer.  You might be surprised.  They may suggest a local animal shelter, homeless shelter, food bank, or even to rake the leaves/plant flowers for an elderly neighbor.  If you plan it, you are most likely to follow through.  Happy Planning

God Bless…….

Related posts:

1. Silver Linings
2. Holiday Cheer!